How hard is it for ordinary people to cross classes? ☁️

Zhihu / Simple Citrus Rw

3600 words / 16 minutes

🛏️ The reality of the underclass
💡 A solution to the underlying dilemma
✍️ Six-point summary

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This is not chicken soup for the soul, but a methodology for changing one's life against the sky.

In particular, the method of breaking away from the bottom will tell you how to get out of the bottom of society, how to earn the first million, and achieve a class jump. I believe that as long as you do what I say, it will change your destiny.

1. The reality of 🛏️ the underlying society

Before a person is thirty years old, whether his career and relationship go well or not is most likely caused by his parents, and the responsibility lies with his parents.

To know how to manage our feelings and how to mix with society, a large part of it comes down to our exposure to our parents, as well as the material conditions and ways of thinking they provide us.

If the parents are very bad and have a bad relationship, then it is generally difficult for the children to escape this fate.

This is especially true for men, if a man's parents are not strong, there is a high probability that his life will be a tragedy, unless this man can quickly make up for the path that his parents should have taken.

Of course, it's good to have parents to help you, and don't blame your parents if you don't have your parents, because the parents of the poor are also poor people in this world, and they didn't have parents to help them before.

Inferior genes are passed down from generation to generation, while the genes of the rich are optimized from generation to generation, and the children born to parents at the bottom will probably still linger at the bottom if there is no big change and awakening.

The reason why many people choose to lie down or be depressed now is that they see the truth clearly and are powerless to change it.

In fact, the higher the IQ of people, the more likely they are to languish and depression, the reason is that they can quickly see the essence of things through the surface, but they can't accept the ugliness of the truth, and constantly fall into the conflict between the beautiful and ugly reality in their hearts, and the self-torture, unable to extricate themselves.

Second, the way to 💡 solve the underlying dilemma

So is there a solution?

The answer is yes.

You are lucky to see a friend who has not crossed away here.

In what follows, I'll tell you why you're at the bottom and how to get out of it.

If you realize that your parents are in the bottom of society, then you don't follow the usual route.

What is the regular route?

After studying hard for more than ten years, and then being admitted to a university and obtaining a diploma, he was thrown directly into society and crawled by himself.

Because parents can't give any career guidance and planning, relying on the guidance of schools, teachers and company seniors is mostly unrealistic.

Because the people who are willing to have substantive contact with you are basically poor dicks.

You can't get in touch with really good people.

Even if they do, they won't tell you the truth.

Because the person who jumps out of the well, if he tries to wake up the person at the bottom of the well, is fatal.

1⃣️ Plato's Fables

Plato wrote a cave metaphor in the Ideal Republic, where many prisoners were imprisoned in a cave, they were bound, they were sitting on the ground against the wall, unable to move, and their heads could not be turned, they could only stare at the innermost wall.

And behind the wall there was a fire, and between the fire and the wall there were other people, holding all kinds of dolls and making the puppets do all kinds of movements, similar to shadow puppetry, and these prisoners saw the images projected on the wall and mistook them for real things.

They spend their whole lives in this illusion.

One of the prisoners broke free by chance, stood up and looked around, and walked out of the cave, where he discovered the truth of the world.

It turned out that all he had seen before was an illusion, and there was a bright world outside.

So he no longer wanted to live this dark life, and wanted to save his companions.

However, when he returned to the cave, his companions, not only did not believe every word he said, but thought that he had run up to it, and when he came back, his eyes had been burned by the sun, and he could no longer read the images as before, so they murdered him.

Because those who are ignorant have become accustomed to living in phantoms and do not want to change, and regard all those who want to make changes as crazy.

So you will find that the people at the bottom who live in a fantasy world are very stubborn, and the competition is very fierce.

2⃣️ Titanic

Of course, when any kind of crisis arises, the first to suffer must be the people at the bottom.

In 2019, I went to the United Kingdom to play, and by the way I went to Northern Ireland, many scenes of "Game of Thrones" were taken from Northern Ireland, and Belfast, the capital of Northern Ireland, was the world's shipbuilding capital, the famous Titanic was born here, and a Titanic Museum was built.

I have a habit of going to a new city and going on YouTube to watch a documentary about the history of the place.

Then I saw a very interesting record, which was different from the movie. At that time, the Titanic was divided into three classes of cabins, and after an accident, the first-class people escaped first and got on the lifeboat first, and the survival rate of the first-class cabin was 60 percent, and the survival rate of the third-class cabin was only 26 percent.

Moreover, the survival rate of men in first class is much higher than that of women and children in third class.

Because the first-class ticket price is the highest, and it is full of dignitaries, as well as wealthy businessmen and celebrities, the location of the lifeboat is also placed near the first-class cabin, and they have the priority to escape.

The first class sacrifices are said to have been made because they were convinced that the ship would never be silent and did not escape, not because they wanted to give up their chances of life to women and children.

Also particularly interesting is that there was a lifeboat that could accommodate forty people, but the first class crew did twenty and drove away.

Because if they were kind enough to wait for the people in the second and third class to come on board, the people would jump into the lifeboat like crazy, and they might overturn the boat.

3⃣️ The competition for people at the bottom is the fiercest

In fact, no matter in any era, any society, or any occasion, the bottom society is always the most crowded, and the competition is always the most fierce.

But sadly, the resources and opportunities at this level are also the most pitiful, as is making money.

Accumulating the first pot of gold, zero to one million, this stage is the most difficult, because the competition at the bottom is very fierce, after breaking through one million, the competition becomes much smaller.

When you have 10 million, the competition will be even smaller. If you also want to break out of this endless cycle at the bottom, but you don't have an idea.

4⃣️ How to win against the competition

I'll share with you a way to do everything against the people around you.

If you are at the bottom, then everyone you come into contact with should be people at the bottom.

The text, listening, audio, and videos they watch every day must be to strengthen their position at the bottom and enhance their competitiveness at the bottom, rather than leapfrogging upwards and jumping out of the level of stepping on others.

Whatever they're passionate about, you should never do.

They like to have dinners, so you don't want to go.

They like to be fooled by businesses and media to go shopping, so don't just spend money to join in the fun.

They like to watch short videos and dramas, so you don't want to watch them.

They like to take out loans to buy garbage trucks, buy junk properties, and even put the rest of their lives on this, so you don't have to go into debt to buy these junk assets.

As long as you can keep doing this, you will soon find that the world is actually very pure, the heart will become cleaner, the mind will become more and more sensitive, and the mind will become more and more free.

As long as you reach this state of not following the crowd and have the ability to think independently, then then you can really start to come into contact with the nobles with a high energy field.

5⃣️ Follow the winners

If you have access to productive bosses, then be sure to follow them in any way you can.

As long as you do what you are told, you will definitely learn the knowledge that you can make money directly, and you will also have access to the connections and resources around them.

After discovering an opportunity, you should make money quickly, don't think too long-term, two or three years is enough for you to complete the accumulation of the first pot of gold.

How can you spot this opportunity?

That is to follow the boss who has achieved results and has made money.

So how can you get the big guy to bring himself?

You need to come up with real money for tuition, as well as your own respect and sincerity, to let them know that you are a person who respects them, a person with strong executive ability, and a person who knows gratitude.

Believe me, no big guy will refuse such a little brother, if you think you are a person who loves to toss, don't sell your time to work for others.

My principle is this: Don't go to work even if you want to eat.

In addition, you can't starve to death if you do anything these days, and it doesn't cost much to eat.

People only need to eat and sleep to live, and men add sexual needs, and if they want to meet these needs, they can't spend much money a month.

As for buying a car, buying a house, starting a family, marrying a daughter-in-law, having children, socializing, and luxury goods, these are not just needed, not just needed, you don't want to gamble the rest of your life for them.

Don't waste your poor trial-and-error capital on the wrong things.

Of course, when I say not working, I don't mean to let you lie flat, but to keep you looking for money-making projects and make friends with people who are willing to take you.

I don't recommend you to invest a lot of money, open a store, or join a project, or rent an office and start recruiting people when you haven't found a good project, these are all dead behaviors.

Seeing the friends here, I believe you must be someone who wants to improve yourself and is extremely eager to get rid of the status quo.

3. Summary ✍️ of six points

Give yourself a thumbs up first, mark the key points, summarize my following six points, write them down in the notebook, read them several times a day, and you will definitely change your life against the sky.

1⃣️ Get out of the thinking inertia of the people at the bottom, don't go with the flow, even if you are misunderstood, isolated, and ridiculed by the people around you, you must insist on doing the right thing.
2⃣️Get rid of the habits and circles of people at the bottom, avoid unnecessary consumption and debt, and prevent yourself from falling into the trap of consumption.
3⃣️Learn to be independent, think deeply, have no distractions, only focus on your own learning and growth, and contact the nobles with a high energy field, use the connections and resources of the nobles, and quickly accumulate the first pot of gold once you find an opportunity.
4⃣️ Do your best to become valuable, and sincerely embrace the noble people you meet, the so-called self-help God helps.
5⃣️ Learn to save, don't compare, and only spend money on what you really need.
6⃣️ Don't be speculative, don't invest and start a business easily.

This era is no longer suitable for ordinary people to start a business, don't let yourself become a green leek. As long as you follow my logic, you will gradually find that you are gradually detaching yourself from the bottom. The road to success is not crowded, it's just that the stage you're at is too crowded.